Saturday, December 24, 2011

What is Love?

Ok so this is my last post before Christmas which is only 3 hours away here in Australia, and i have a question for everyone. HOW FAR INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP IS IT NORMAL TO SAY THE LOVE WORD? I look forward to hearing back from you all. Merry Christmas everyone. XO Lilly. And a few quotes to leave you all with. "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love." Dr. Seuss "The one who loves least controls the relationship." Author Unknown "Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing, and wishing you had?" Author Unknown


Furtheron said...

20 years? Seriously I never knew what love was until I got sober and had to rebuild my marriage all over again.

Who knows - depends on the people and the relationship... I've known couples who did literally know in that first instance that this was the one for life for others takes years to build a love

Hope you have had a great Christmas

xo lilly (my life unspoken) said...

Furtheron.... I think that sometime we confuse love with familiarity, or i do anyway. i get used to people being around and it becomes normal. Its hard in the scene we hang in, to meet a lot of people you get close enough to to develop stronger feelings for.
i had a great xmas thanks and i hope the same for you.
xo Lilly

bugerlugs63 said...

Hi, I used to think I loved people really early in the relationship. If it wasn't mutual I would think somut was wrong. Then by the time they caught up and decided maybe they did love me . . . Too late matey!! I've had some major fuck ups of relationships. . . Been lucky in the way that I've always ended it. I aint got a clue whats normal? I just wish my dealer would text. Did first night off in years last night and its put me in a bad mood :-( . . . Sat staring at the phone. Hope all's good with you.

xo lilly (my life unspoken) said...

bugerlugs63.....100% love the dealer texting comment. mine finally did late afternoon and i'm hoping he will answer again shortly.
All is great with me. take care.
xo Lilly